Back to the ornery gents house again.
Twice even.
Morning care and noontime catheter care.
He is failing but true to form, on his own terms.
He told me:
'I'll be damned if I die while they are here, the vultures. They can't wait.'
His theory is that their special leave will run out before his willpower.
I came in the morning and the collection of clock-watchers were at the Kitchen table drinking coffee.
The daughter stood up, looked down at me and said: 'And you are...?'
'I was here yesterday. You met me then. I am your father's regular person 5 days a week.'
I kept going down the hall to where he was.
I heard her say: 'Oh God, it's the pushy one. Who does she think she is?'
I just couldnt resist. I turned around and went back in the kitchen.
I looked at her and she said 'Yes?'
'I thought I spoke clearly. I am your father's regular person 5 days a week.'
'What? What the hell? What do you want?'
'You wanted to know who I think I am? Your Father's regular 5 day a week person. '
And I went down to her dad.
I could hear her muttering.
He was smiling. He grabbed my arm.
'Ya done good Kid. Giver hell.'
When I came back at lunch time she was nowhere to be seen.
The rest of them scattered.
I am not sure he can outlast these people.
But I am sure he will give it a good shot.
I think we will put overnight respite care in there.
Maybe that will hurry them home.
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Lest you think me heartless, I am there for my client.
It is my client's home. I respect my client's wishes.
Everything else is none of my concern.
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